About

Wendy Kihiu, MA, LMFT

Therapist · Speaker · Author

A licensed marriage and family therapist, speaker, and author of Rethinking Parenting — working with families, teens, young adults, and couples to navigate the launch years with greater clarity and connection.

Wendy Kihiu, MA, LMFT

About Wendy

A clinician, mom, and trusted voice for families.

Wendy Kihiu, MA, LMFT, is a licensed marriage and family therapist, speaker, and creator of Rethinking Parenting: Launching. She has spent years walking alongside preteens, teens, young adults, and their parents in the messy middle of real life.

“As both a clinician and a mom, Wendy teaches from the place where research, faith, and lived experience meet.”

In her private practice, Wendy specializes in working with adolescents, college students, couples, and families — integrating attachment science, trauma-aware care, and Christ-centered hope. Her work helps clients understand not just what they are feeling, but why — and how to move forward with clarity and steadiness.

She is especially passionate about helping parents shift from fear and frantic fixing to wise, grounded mentoring — particularly during the “launch years,” when children are stepping into adulthood but still growing emotionally and spiritually.

She lives in New Palestine, Indiana, with her family.

Her Framework

Loved · Stretched · Responsible

Wendy’s work centers on a simple but powerful framework — guiding parents to raise adults, not just manage children, while preserving connection along the way.

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Areas of Work

Therapy · Speaking · Writing

Therapy

Individual, couples, and family therapy for preteens, teens, young adults, and families navigating the launch years.

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Speaking

Keynotes, workshops, and parent events for churches, schools, and organizations on parenting, anxiety, and emotional health.

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Book

Rethinking Parenting: Launching — available now in both Kindle eBook and paperback on Amazon.

Ready to connect?

Whether you’re looking for therapy, a speaker for your event, or want to learn more about the Rethinking Parenting resources — Wendy would love to hear from you.

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